Let’s face it, we are not always self lubricating. Maybe we are getting older, maybe we have been with the same lover for awhile and just don’t have that oooh going on anymore (or to be fair- less so) or maybe we are in a sex marathon and we just have had a lot of sex in one session and aren’t creating it anymore.

Then there is the fact that toys NEED lubricant!!! If you don’t use toys with lubricant you are chancing infection.

And there is the deal that if you participate in Anal sex you definitely need lube for that!

Even if you don’t think you need lube, read on..You may be surprised to know how beneficial it can be for your sex life.

There are two kinds of lubes:

1. Water based
2. Silicone based

The most popular of these is water. Being that it is safe for ALL toys and is friendly all around.

Water based Lubricant

It is easy to use, silky and smooth. You can find thicker variety, gel variety, thin variety. The fact that it is water based means it does absorb into your body so the need to reapply does happen, but less so with the thick kind. However if you are having some hot sex, it will need it and if we are talking anal sex, definitely.

Silicone Based

I personally love silicone based lubricant! But you can’t use it with silicone toys as they eat each other up. And many toys will dissolve with silicone based lube. So I save it for strait on sex and for anal sex. You can also use silicone based lubricant in water, so if you are having a hot tub sex session you can use it!

Let’s just say that sex with lubricant as a woman is so much better than sex without. Too much and you are going to feel too slick, but just enough and it is game on! One of my favorite lubes is a sensation lubricant that works like a sex enhancing cream-wakes up the nerve endings on your clitoris allowing for a more extensive, enjoyable orgasm.

Here is to having great sex! And adding lubricant can definitely help that goal!

You can touch, taste and explore many lubricants (flavored of course) by hosting an adult sex toy party! Book your party today and see how great a few choice items can enhance your sex life!

“Recent studies reveal that 45-55% of married women and 50-60% of married men engage in extramarital sex at some time or another during their relationship.” While as the article states this is not only about sex but some emotional need not being met, I believe the two are connected.

“The bottom line is that if you want to help avoid infidelity in your relationship, then you must nurture and prioritize your relationship with your spouse or partner. As you may have already figured out, unlike planes, relationships cannot be maintained on “auto-pilot”.”

Better sex does lead to a better marriage, it is a fact. Start with communication. Open conversation about your sex life. While this RARELY happens, either due to embarrassment or shyness it NEEDS to happen.

Introducing toys and accessories to your sex life can be a great way of getting back into the swing of having fun sex again.

Couple’s toys are awesome for this quest. It ensures orgasm on both parts. Most couple’s toys have a C-Ring to constrict the blood flow in the penis and keep the penis erect longer. This also allows for the man to have a more intense orgasm. The end that takes care of the woman generally varies. A nub end for the clitoris, can have a vibrator sometimes does not. I prefer the vibrator myself.

These toys vary in different ways. Some have a dangling attachment to play with the anal area; some have vibrators on the bottom part of the toy for the same reason, to play with the anal area or the testicles.

Couple’s toys come in many different styles for a big reason; YOU ARE DIFFERENT! We all are! And what use on our bodies or with our partners is very individual. Try it! You will like it!

And remember; a great way to see different types of adult sex toys is to book an adult sex toy party in your home. Have a great time and see all the different couples toys you can introduce into your life.

Sources:

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